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Male headship has climbed into the lifeboats

How can a husband love his wife sacrificially and then tell her that he is her boss? Continue reading

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True confessions at a high school reunion

True confessions at my high school reunion lets me know that we have a long way to go for women’s equality. Churches need to get a backbone and call a halt to this male headship theory, not a theology, just a lopsided theory. Continue reading

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Al Mohler needs an Eve

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Al Mohler and other restrictionists have to have a real Adam. Without a real Adam, how else could he have Eve? If there were no Eve, then their little world of male headship and male supremacy would come tumbling down.
Everything hinges on Eve eatin’ that apple.
“But I do not allow a woman to teach or exercise authority over a man, but to remain quiet. For it was Adam who was first created, and then Eve. And it was not Adam who was deceived, but the woman being quite deceived, fell into transgression.” (1 Timothy 2:12-14)
See, it is right there. Eve did it, and then Adam did it. Eve had argued with Satan, and quoted God’s words to Satan. BUT – Adam took one look and partook.
Now we know that in the beginning, God created male and female, and he created them equal. The Baptist Faith and Message 2000 (Dr. Mohler’s and the Southern Baptist Convention’s statement of faith) confirms that. They don’t stop there; they go on with their EQUAL-BUTs.
1. Eve was created equal – but she was created second, after Adam
2. Eve was created equal – but she was created from Adam
3. Eve was created equal – but Adam was given leadership over her because he was privileged to give her a name
4. Eve was created equal – but she gave in to temptation
5. Eve was created equal – but she became a temptress to her husband
6. Eve was created equal – but she needed a leader (“Adam! Where are you?” “I’ve invented a game, Lord. Its called Hide and seek.”)
7. Eve was created equal – but she was destined to have pain in childbirth, and thus could raise children, but not a church (wait, I think I am confabulating here!)
8. Eve was created equal – but she caused so many problems in Eden that they both got thrown out.
But what about Jesus? He came in and turned the world upside down! He was hung on a cross for my sins and for Dr. Mohler’s sins and for the sins of other restrictionists (complementarians). If Jesus could be the way to God now, he could certainly be the way for women to be redeemed from the taint of Eve.
Just why did God seek to redeem mankind to Him? Was it so they could continue as before? Or was it because God saw their love for the rules they made, and their exclusion of those who were not Jews, and the way they treated one-half of the human race? Perhaps that is why humans need the redemptive blood of Christ.
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Questions and Answers about the Trinity

If the pastors aren’t preaching the Eternal Sonship Submission theology in the pulpit, where is it coming from and how big a problem is it? Continue reading

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Distorting the Word of God about Marriage

Jesus does not need a living picture of Him and if He did, he certainly would not have chosen every husband to be His living representative. This is a fairy tale perpetuated upon unsuspecting women by pastors and writers. Continue reading

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Almost Persuaded – Part 4 of 4

God allows us to choose how we will treat women. 1 Corinthians 13:11 says When I was a child, I spoke as a child, I thought as a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put aside childish things. (Holman Christian Standard Bible) Continue reading

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Husbands turn the Trinity into a quartet – Part 3

They are false prophets, leading people astray. No matter how heartfelt their beliefs are. They are wrong. The Bible does not bear out their theology. This is a new theology brought about because they were afraid women seeking equality would destroy the church. Continue reading

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Husbands turn the Trinity into a quartet, Part 2

What is not said, but what is taught, is that upon marriage, a man who was just an imperfect human being before the marriage ceremony, now becomes a god to be obeyed, worshiped, and who is given his own little kingdom which will consist of his wife and his daughters and the sons until they marry.

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Male Covering – Hogwash

Male headship and male covering creates among men and women a division, an acknowledgement that males are superior to females. It leads to abuse in the home and in the spiritual life. Continue reading

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Lifting the veil on June brides

Doesn’t the Male Headship husband or father know if he is asking her to sin? Can’t he figure that out himself? Here we have a woman that is treated as if she is still a child, and she must be the one to decide if her husband or father is asking her to commit a sin, while they hold no such responsibility. Continue reading

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